Well- I dont coddle or I dont beg. My boys are MY world. So to be a part of their life, regardless of WHO YOU ARE- you must tote a tight line.
As per Court documents- October 1 I should’ve received a confirmation stating that Bio Mom is attending the October 8 visit.
This DID not happen.
This means, as per our court documents that visit is Cancelled.
In the previous blog- i Copied and pasted Bio Moms and my convo-that she emailed me on social media. I reminded her what she is supposed to do, in order to have a visit. (because she failed to do it in April)-she told me she understood.
Here we are 5 days from visit and nothing in our PO BOX. So this means, sorry charlie. If you cannot put the boys first, i cannot help you either.
Here’s the whole section of visits and pictures:
So as far as the visits are concerned- she forfeited all visitation rights here on out.
-she has not sent 1 update of her in a year (she used to write “us” at least every other week)
-as far as pictures- we send them religiously (as court ordered) but we do return receip & we restrict it that ONLY she can pick the pictures up. We dont need just ANYONE with pictures of our boys.
So what to do now-do i feel bad? a little, but i have to look at it from the stance of, you didnt do what you were supposed to do. You didnt think to put the boys first even just ONCE. I am not a babysitter. I am not doing any favors. I am their Mother and I refuse to feel anything less.
I do not know how this will go over. I’m sure i’ll get another social media message, and i will then also tell her- 1) we’ve gone through this a few months ago and 2) you just forfeited the visits for life- because you didnt take it serious.
Ill be the bad guy. But i’ll be the one who NEVER forgets about my boys.